My child is transitioning from the toddler to preschool room at his child care center. I am worried about the big change for him. How can I help him understand the change and make the move as smooth as possible?-Chaska mom
Julie says : Transitions for children are usually harder for the parent than for the child. Children are resilient if they are treated respectfully to begin with. I find that talking about change in a positive way and informing people that there will be changes ahead of time is respectful. If the center that your child attends allows for your son to visit the next classroom and the staff over a period of time before the transition date occurs, this will enable them to build the trust that is necessary for your child to feel safe. Being an advocate for your child is the number 1 thing that you can do to help them. Let your child know that you understand that they may feel sad to be leaving their friends and teachers in the toddler room. Talk about the things that they have accomplished there. Then remind them of the friends who have already moved up to the big room. Tell them how proud you are that they are growing and talk to them about the exciting things that they will be learning in the next room. Take time to celebrate the transitions with your child!
Julie Wasiluk was a child care provider for many years. She is currently the professional development program specialist for The Minnesota Child Care Resource and Referral Network